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The Generation Game — A Free Intergenerational Bonding Game for Families

The Generation Game is a free intergenerational bonding game that helps teenagers and the adults in their lives, like parents or grandparents, talk about what their generations see differently. It goes beyond small talk and sparks real conversations where both sides can surprise each other.

Most families spend time together but don’t always connect deeply. Each generation has its own experiences with growing up, work, friendship, and risk, but these differences often go unexplored because there isn’t a space for them.

The Generation Game creates that space, using 92 statements in 10 categories to spark honest and surprising conversations between teenagers and adults.

The Generation Game

The Generation Game

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The Generation Game

A free conversation game designed to get teenagers and their parents or grandparents really talking — about the things their generations actually see differently.

Set up your game

Built for teenagers (13+) playing with a parent or grandparent. Pick who's playing, then choose a category — or leave on all categories for a good mix.

Who's playing?
Pick a category (optional)

How to play

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One of you reads the statement aloud. Both share what you actually think — there are no right or wrong answers, and the best conversations come from disagreeing honestly.
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If a statement sparks a thought you'd love to explore with other family members, tap the bookmark icon. You'll get a copy of all your saved statements at the end to share with anyone.
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Talk for as long as the statement keeps going. When you're ready, hit Next card. End the game whenever you've had enough.

Different worlds. Same family.

The more you share how you see the world, the closer you get.

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Bookmarked statements

Use these to ignite new conversations with other family members — share them in a message, bring them up at dinner, or save them for your next get-together.

Want all 92 statements?

Download the full printable deck — all 10 categories in one place.

Download the full PDF deck

The conversations you just had deserve to be remembered.

Simirity is a private family journal where the stories, opinions and memories that surface in conversations like these can live forever — shared only with the people you choose.

See how Simirity works →

Prefer something you can print?

Download the full Generation Game PDF deck — all 92 statements across 10 categories.

Why Intergenerational Bonding Matters More Than Most Families Realise

Generation Gap

Conversations that bridge generations don’t happen on their own — they need a prompt

Research shows that teenagers with strong relationships with grandparents or trusted older adults feel more grounded, handle challenges better, and have a clearer sense of identity. Studies also find that up to 9 in 10 adult grandchildren say their grandparents shaped their beliefs and values, but most families don’t create the right setting for these talks.

The Generation Game provides that prompt.

Different generations unable to find something mutually interesting to talk about.

Sometimes different generations struggle to talk

A grandfather and granddaughter embracing and looking happy

Strong relationships like these make us happy

Both Sides Win

These connections help more than just grandchildren

A Boston College study found that a close relationship between grandparents and grandchildren is linked to fewer symptoms of depression for both. Research published in Social Sciences found that intergenerational bonding programmes improve communication skills and build empathy in both older and younger participants. For grandparents, being asked for their perspective and truly listened to gives a sense of purpose.

For teenagers, hearing from someone who grew up in a different world offers a unique perspective.

The Real Barrier

Generations don’t drift apart because they stop caring, but because they run out of things to say

Much family time is filled with small talk—safe, polite, and forgettable. Intergenerational conversations often feel awkward, not because people don’t like each other, but because neither side knows how to bridge the gap between their worlds without it feeling forced. A well-chosen statement, not a question but an observation that invites disagreement, can remove that awkwardness.

When both sides have something real to share, the conversation flows naturally.

Intergenerational bonding as a teenager talks animatedly to her grandmother

The Generation Game can ingite wonderful conversations

The Simirity family journal app - the home of family stories

Simirity is a private home for family stories

Keep It Alive

The best conversations deserve to be remembered

When a conversation brings out a memory, value, or perspective that was unknown before, it’s worth saving. Simirity is a private family journal where you can capture these stories and moments in words, photos, or voice, and share them only with the people you choose.

It’s the natural next step after a conversation you want to keep.

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FAQ — Family History Game

What is intergenerational bonding?

Intergenerational bonding means building meaningful connections between people from different generations, usually grandparents and grandchildren, but also parents and teenagers. It happens through shared experiences, conversations, and time together where both sides feel truly seen and heard. Research shows it helps both generations: older adults gain a renewed sense of purpose, and younger people develop stronger emotional resilience and a clearer sense of identity.

Why is intergenerational bonding important for teenagers?

Teenagers are figuring out who they are and where they come from. Strong relationships with older family members give them roots and a sense of belonging to something bigger than their immediate world. Stanford researchers found that teenagers with strong bonds with grandparents are more likely to seek their advice during tough times, often confiding in them when they wouldn’t talk to a parent. These connections don’t happen by accident—they’re built through conversation.

What makes The Generation Game different from other family games?

Most family games are made to entertain everyone at once. The Generation Game is designed for the two-generation gap, pairing a teenager with a parent or grandparent. The statements are meant to bring out the real differences in how each generation sees the world. There are no right answers, no scores, and no winners. The game works because the difference in perspective is the point, not a problem to solve.

Is The Generation Game suitable for all families?

Yes. The statements are designed to be mainstream and avoid topics like politics or religion, so families feel comfortable. They work because they focus on universal themes like growing up, friendship, work, and the future—areas where every generation has real experience, no matter their background or culture.

How do you start an intergenerational conversation with a teenager?

The hardest part is moving past small talk without making it feel like an interrogation. Statements work better than questions because they invite a reaction instead of demanding an answer. For example, saying “it was harder growing up in my generation than yours” almost always gets an honest response from both sides. After that, the conversation usually flows on its own.

What are the benefits of intergenerational activities for grandparents?

Grandparents who take part in activities with younger generations often feel a renewed sense of purpose and meaning, and believe they have something valuable to offer. Research also shows that grandparents who stay involved with their grandchildren have a lower risk of mortality over 20 years compared to those who do not. Being asked for your perspective and having it truly heard matters more than most people realise

Can this game be played online or on video calls?

Yes. The game works in any browser, with no download or sign-up needed. One person can share their screen and read the statements, or both can open the game separately. It’s especially helpful for families who are apart and want a more structured way to connect than a regular catch-up call.

How do I preserve the stories and memories that come up during the game?

You can bookmark any statement during the game that leads to a story you want to keep, and copy all your bookmarks at the end. For deeper preservation, Simirity is a private family journal made for this purpose: it lets you capture stories, memories, and perspectives from conversations between generations, using words, photos, or voice, and keep them safe for the people who matter most.